What I never understood was that when I first met someone, out of the blue, that I’ve never seen or met before and automatically hate me. I’m not talking like well, we just aren’t going to be friends, I’m talking like a pure hatred here. I have no idea why. Maybe they didn’t have their cup of coffee for the day, but it confuses me.
In turn, it also puts me on the defensive towards them. And all of this has been decided in the first 10 seconds of meeting each other. Furthermore, there’s no fixing this. This person is never going to take the time to actually get to know me. I mean, I can understand if we start talking and we just, don’t become friends, but to just up and decide you hate someone, really honestly confuses me.
I’m left to assume this person isn’t happy with their life that they are putting the hatred towards others before ever seeing them.
Maybe they don’t like the way I dress, but again… isn’t really sound for hatred.
So, in turn, I will accept the dislike and move on with my life and do what I have to do. Then, this person goes out of their way to make it known that they dislike me. Spreading the word about it always confuses me as well. When I was younger, and in elementary school, it was done because the person was hoping others would join in on their side and they can all gang up on the one person.
But we’re adults here… or at least we’re supposed to be.
It’s truly sad that some of us have never really grown up and moved on with their lives. Doing what they do is just proof that they have nothing better to do.
I mean, I would much rather read a book, go exercising, hang out with my boyfriend than sit and stew about someone I hate… for whatever reason.
As an adult, I thought we were supposed to have matured enough to pass it on to children… that we raise… to be a part of the society as well. But, turns out, we just keep breeding generations and generations of immature people.
I know that I’m rambling on in the same way that this person is doing towards me. But the point I’m trying to make is that there is no need for hatred. Especially generalized, undeserving hatred.
I don’t understand how it manifests from nowhere and is put on to someone else. This is a prime example of what the larger scale of things is going on.
Why is it these things can’t be put aside? What is boiling inside of us that’s so strong that we must take this out on a person and ENCOURAGE others to do the same?
You don’t know me. You don’t know who I am; you don’t know what I’m about. And now, because you have responded this way, not only do I NOT know you, I don’t ever want to.